When being a nanny there’s a daily overlap of mum, dad and Jen. When does mum and dad stop being the one’s in charge and it passes to me?
This was tested this week, I arrived as normal and both M & L had been at a friends birthday party so were fairly amped up on sugar! M was colouring in a picture using some stickers she had received in her goody bag, she reached over for L’s stickers and MB (MumBoss) told M not to use them as they weren’t hers. This is when M’s selective hearing kicked in, despite numerous protestations from MB, M peeled a sticker off and placed it on her piece of paper.
I’m afraid I could no longer sit and watch, I told M that she really ought to go sit on her stool (i.e. taking her away from the activity she is obviously so involved in) and of course because she was being chastised and because mum and dad were there, she started crying.
I felt slightly frustrated, because had we been alone she would have gone straight to the stool, sat down and calmed down, but because her parents were there, I felt she was trying to get some sympathy and it really brought to light how much the parents and my disciplinary measures differ.
However at the end of all this, no matter how hard I come down on M, she tells me every day that she “loves me all the way to Pluto”, so parents, please! Don’t be afraid to be firm with children, they crave the authoritative parenting style.











